I remember the first time I stumbled across the idea of a sex club. It was when a much more innocent version of myself was happily binge watching Being Erica, a Canadian TV show, on Netflix.
In the particular episode, the main character, Erica, had to visit a sex club coincidentally located in Toronto to do research for a book she was writing about sex. The theme of the episode was exploring conventions in relationships, which looking back seems like a great conversation to fit with the chosen backdrop of a sex club. I was a virgin at the time, so finding out there was a kinky side to sex which established itself in a community setting was very exciting. I was too young then to comprehend the desires behind attending such a venue, but it was a fascinating thought that I have kept with me.
Oasis is an upscale sex club located on Mutual Street and is used as a commune for the sex-positive community in Toronto. At Oasis, you can have sex anywhere in the club, except for the hot tub. This brought me back to the intriguing thoughts that Being Erica had planted in my head. Through my in-depth investigation, I knew that one day I would attend. Joining the sex blogging community has opened my eyes into facets of sexuality that would have been hard to come across in my mainstream life.
If you had asked me a year ago if I was open for a threesome with another girl, then you would have gotten a hard no. If asked to explain myself I would have listed jealously as being a primary factor, and being not attracted to girls. Blogging has lead me to discover and understand polyamory, open relationships, and benefits of group sex, so my mind has been more comfortable with the idea of sex with multiple people lately.
At first it started with a fantasy of being with two guys at once which has not happened yet, but not due to lack of trying. The idea of being taken by two dominant men, both specifically there to please me is one of the hottest thoughts imaginable. This way I could be the guest star, the shiny new toy to play with.
